The reality of Illusion.
Whatever you see in front of you.It is complete illusion, and by that we mean, insofar as that all matter, all of life is a pulsating, gyrating, life birthing, organism of change and dynamic flow. And you’ve labeled it “chair”, “desk”, “home”, “office”, “iPad”, “boyfriend”, “mom”, “my asshole ex” or whatever you may call it.
The illusion lays in the label. For when you label it, you make it static, and the illusion of unchanging-ness covers the truth of the dynamic nature and flow of all of it. “Boyfriend” can be come “asshole ex” just as fast as you snap your fingers, or vis versa. But for simplicity’s sake, we understand your labelling, and even agree it makes life easier, as long as you remember, that at the heart of it all, the way you feel about all of it, lays within your heart, not the labels, not the behaviours, and not the perceived actions, inactions, words or silences of these things you have labeled. The power to unravel the illusion, comes from feeling the essence below all of it, which is our natural impulse towards love.
Even on days when that love seems impossible, the drive is still there.